Help...put urself in my shoes! Relationship issues?

Picture this....You are with a man for 10 months and than you find out you are pregnant. the months prior to pregnancy everything was okay!! after telling him and the family, and finding out that everyone is upset about it, you still go through with it! the whole pregnancy is a consent battle with everyone... you cant even enjoy this happy moment in ur life! your in your 6 months of pregnancy when your childs father calls and says that he doesnt want to be with you anymore...he says its because he isnt attracted to you anymore...which you know is not true... two weeks later he calls and says he's getting his own place. a week later you find out that he has just moved in with a female. Come to find out that the female is of course "his new girlfriend"! Months passed where your arguing back and fourth between him and his girlfriend! You finally hit your ninth month...you still love him and you think he will change because of the baby, but instead...he's the same....you give him a couple

Help...put urself in my shoes! Relationship issues?
if i was in ur situation i would just forget about him and move on................i kno wat it feels like to have someone that u love so much deep inside but they jsut make u so angry.........u have to tell urself, move on.....he is only causin u stress..........all he want from u is sex and company.........i understand that hes the father of ur child but if he left u when u got pregnant and gets another girl pregnant and now wants to all of the sudden be with u again..............thats not rite....if he really cared he would of stuck by ur side.............move on relationship wise but keep in contact bc he is the father and the child deserves to kno him........as far as the other child........i think that ur child should kno them too...............
Reply:That must be awful..going through stuff like that while being pregnant. First off, I am SO SORRY! :-( DON'T go back to him! LET HIM GO!!!! He is so unfaithful!! I mean all he wants u 4 is ur body. he don't care about the kid, ur life, or what ur going through..PLUS!.. u gave him more that 2 chances. be grateful that ur family is behind u (if they are) and make sure u get ur shild support. and don't let him see the kid. try finding a new man that can support you and love u with the love that you deserve. Good luck and god bless u in such a hard time!
Reply:You've been going through some traumatic stuff while being pregnant which is sometimes hard enough as it is. That really sucks. :(





I say you should stop seeing him without her present and move on with your own life...without him in it. Just focus on taking care of you and your bambino....soon you'll be so busy with a new baby and then you'll have to get a job on top of it so that you can survive, so you won't have time to deal with this nonesense anyway.





Good luck!
Reply:know its hard but hes not worth your time ,he will only disappoint you down the line. think of the time you'll waste on him,when you could find someone who truly deserves you. be strong....they dont change,what you see is what you'll get,be weary
Reply:Sounds like your ex had this girlfriend for sometime now. He's sleeping with you because you're letting him. He's having his cake and eating it too. You need to stop sleeping with him. As far as your baby and his other soon to be baby. . . the babies are innocent. Whether you like it or not, they're going to be related. So, they should get to know each other. Keep the peace. Good Luck!
Reply:Try reading this free e-book called 97 steps to a happy relationship. I've read it (a while ago) and I still think about the advice given in it.
Reply:so sorry someone is doing this to you ... but i would stay as far away from him as possible. by you seeing him your not giving yourself time to heal. yes i know your still in love with him but he doesn't deserve you or your baby .... let him go, heal, then find yourself someone who will give you the kind of love you deserve,you and your baby will be much happier for it.



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