What would you do if you were in my shoes.?

I am a 25 year old male and have a 3 year old boy that I share with my ex-girlfriend. My ex and myself have been together since junior high. At about the time my son was 1 years of age she wanted to leave me completely her choice. Within the two years of being seperated she had another baby by someone else and the father of this baby has nothing to do with either one of them. Now my ex- wants me back and will do anything to make it work with me. She tells me that she has always loved me and can't see her life without me. Well I have been dating a gal for the past 10 months not a serious relationship but we just found out about 1 month ago she is pregnant. This was completely unexpected and wonder how it happened because she was on the pill and I protected myself. I am so confused on my ex that I do share a child with and still do love her. And having another unexpected child with this other gal is waying real heavy on me emotionally. I want to do the right thing but don't know how?

What would you do if you were in my shoes.?
give it up chief they have both got you by the cahunas so you better stick with one for the sake of not paying double child support
Reply:Go with the one you want the most. Although you should think of your children, too, but either one you go with will probably have an equal effect on your children's lives, and theres no real way to tell what will happen. So its most important to go with the one you feel strongest towards.
Reply:My uncle was in the same situation. I dont know how your ex is but My uncles ex left him (her choice) had a kid with someone who was a total loser. My uncle was seeing my aunt who he married they were dating then so when his ex decided and found out my uncle was seeing someone else thats why she wanted him back and said everything you could imagine. Well turns out that my uncle didnt have to make a choice cuz his Ex found someone else so decided she didnt want my uncle anymore. Well my uncle continued seeing this new girl had a kid with her then married her and now 10 years later and 3 kids he's a happy man. No his ex she is a mess she got with loser guys didnt have a stable home so now my uncle has custoday of "their" son and the boy couldnt be happier. U have feelings for her still cuz u 2 have so much history together. U have the chance to start a new relationship and are expecting a unplanned blessing why not give that a chance u never know she can be the one. I wish u the best of luck.
Reply:well the best advice i can give you is always always always go with your heart dont listen to what anyone else tells you cause there not you and as for the other girl that you have been seeing if she was on the pill and you used protection just do the math she probley stopped taking the pill on purpose to get pregnant from you and a baby has to be wanted by both people and babies dont keep people together,people keep people together if you still love you x go with it and forgive it takes a bigger person to forgive then stay angry and become hateful,good luck remember that heart of yours it will never steer you wrong.
Reply:which one has your heart?





your jr. high school sweetheart wanted to see if the grass was greener and found out. perhaps it was a mistake. do you love her enough to forgive her?





if your most recent relationship was not "serious" and you both had birth control (condom + pill), I would assume pregnancy is very unlikely (although not impossible). Perhaps you want to get a DNA test to confirm that you are the father.





continue being the nice guy that you are but do not let the other gal's emotional pressure force you into unhappiness.
Reply:WOW.. I wish there where other guys in the world like you!!! Umm... I know I dont know the entire situation or anything but it just seems like your ex wants you back cuz shes scared, she now has 2 kids and found out that guys can be d*icks, I wouldn't go back with her if it was me, and I wouldn't expect any guy that I left to come back to me weither he still cares or not, if I hurt him how can I ask him to make himself vulnerable again
Reply:If I were in your shoes I would change my avitar
Reply:You didn't really explain how you felt about either of the women in your life. You should be the best father you can possibly can be. Sounds like there's a lot of drama in your life. Try to simply things while you're trying to figure out your emotions. Be a father first, and a Boyfriend second.
Reply:well first do you still love the other gal and did you ever wonder iff your current girl is cheating?just assuming here but if i where you i would ask the other ex if she loved you so much why did she leave and just get a restraining order or something if a fight gose on and when the other baby is born have 1 of those test where the see if its you kid(i forgot what there called!)
Reply:get a condom! GOSH DARN!
Reply:O dude i feel sorry for ya. If you think it would work with the ex, you might as well give it another try, but for the other girl just keep some distance and then when the baby is born get a DNA before you sign anything. If you sign the birth cert. when the baby is born YOU WILL be responsible for that kid. I tried it with my ex several times, didnt work but I dont regret it at all.



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