What would u do if u were in my shoes?

See about a year ago my bf cheated on me and got this girl pregnant. well after the dna results I found out that it was his. I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to stay and the other part wants to leave. He told me that he wants to be in the babys life after i told him that he had to choose between me and the baby. but he wants both and I can't do that. do u think i should leave or stay. I have thought about killing the baby and her. but i don't want to go to jail over it either. I really don't want him any more but he doesn't want to let me go for some reason. would u stay or leave? has anyone been through this before? if so how did it turn out? I have been with him for almost 5 yrs now and the girl he cheated on me with was 16 at the time she got pregnant. He is 21 and I'm 20. what should i do? He keeps telling me we can work this out but i dont see how. he says he told her that he wanted to be with me and not her but i don't know what to believe. any advice

What would u do if u were in my shoes?
leave. go far far away. and dont kill anyone. that would be bad. let him go, if he did this, he couldnt love you as much as he says he did or does.
Reply:If you can't and aren't willing to accept his child you need to leave. Your toxic attitude will not be healthy for the child. You must put the child's best interest before your own. I have to say at least he is standing up and being a man and being a part of this childs life. The child deserves that. Just go ahead and move on, it would be best for all involved.
Reply:your crazy for thinking about killing but anyways id leave him i mean he cheated on you and got a younger girl pregnant and he will do it again guys will say anything for a girl to come back but he wont mean it. if you dont even want the baby in your life you should leave him and move on. and the baby has no fault in this so dont take it on the baby.
Reply:If you feel that strong of hatred towards them then leave. Feeling the way that you do you will never be able to be a "step mom" to that child. You CAN NOT make him choose you over the baby...sorry but that will NEVER happen unless he's an idiot. That baby had nothing to do with your man cheating on you and it is his duty as a father to be in that baby's life. It's time for you to move on sista...
Reply:he cheated. leave him. who's to say he won't cheat again? and if he's spending all that time with the 16 year old and the baby, then he's probably going to cheat again. don't waste your time. he's not worth it.


and don't kill anyone...not smart.



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