If you where in his shoes what will you do?

a man got married to a woman for five good years and had no issue,so the woman later got pregnant and gave bath to a baby boy.years later after the the love and care the man showed the boy. the boy failed ill and was taken to the hospital the doctor said that the boy needs the fathers blood for some operation. the man willing donated his blood not knowing that the boy was not his son.the doctor came back with a report that the bloods where not the same that he needs the biological father(the blood) of the boy.the man was confused and asked the wife to explain what was going on. the wife felled and started confessing that the boy was not his son that his best got him pregnant.the man..............


Question


what happened to the man


what will the man do the wife


if it where you would you confess

If you where in his shoes what will you do?
He got p*ssed, very p*ssed.


He left her


Nope, it's a free ride. She duped a man into raising someone else's child. In this group, women applaud such behavior in other women, but will have the opposite response if it's a man. Double standard.





Not only did she cheat, but she also lied and stole, but the twentysomething women in this group will see this differently. To be sure, it's a 100% showstopper.
Reply:Hunny, first I wouldn't need to confess only been with my husband,19 years, second she should have told you when she found out she was pregnant, what should happen to the wife Nothing and I mean NOTHING, it is up to the husband to divorce his wife, what she did was completely wrong and unfeeling on her part. but do remember the SON, even though he is not yours by blood, he his by Heart which I think is more important. Your heart and the boys, and just think of how he is going to feeling when he is old enough to know the truth. I hope that the man can find it in his heart to keep on loving and parenting that child.
Reply:This is an unlikely scenario as the doctors would type-test the blood beforehand. That being said, I would walk out of the hospital and the only contact I would have with the woman would be via attorney. I would fight to have my name removed from the birth certificate and would file for divorce.





There is NO excuse for that level of betrayal. I'd almost rather get stabbed in the back literally than find out the son I raised is not my own.
Reply:iw ould have said something from the beginning...plus i wouldnt have cheated on my husband. if ur not happy dont cheat just leave the relationship.
Reply:We all make mistakes. If the wife slipped up in the past, doesn't mean that their marriage can't work. After showing love to the boy after all those years, I'd like to think they could keep it together as a couple long enough to see him through his illness. After that, they can talk about their issues and work on strengthening their marriage or other options like divorce.





Being a parent means putting your child and his wellbeing first.
Reply:If it were me it wouldn't ahve happened but that is beside the point. Unfortunately in this case the man is of course going to be heartbroken being that he has raised this boy as his own and now loves him beyond measure. Being htat it is so far into the situation it would be hard to just walk away. the father obviously has to be found and the child has to be made better.....until the child is better then he needs his parents as he knows them to continue on the best they can to see him get well. the rest will have to wait.
Reply:I would confess because you son needs you he needs help he is sick and very ill and his life is what matters know and it is a life and death situatuin and things happen and there is nothing you can do to change it. That I am very sorry.
Reply:I would tell all.Doing anything to save the life of A child is just what we as mothers do.However as for the man,If you love this child does it really matter that your blood isn't in this child?Your still his DAD.Any one can be A father.YOU are A DAD.Now for the woman.You need to think about the fact that you love her and can you forgive her.She might have cheated but she still gave you A great gift.What ever the dissuasion might be.Don't make this child suffer for her mistake.



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