Would you visit me if you were in his shoes? guys?

I was seeing this man abou 2 years ago....we really cared about each other, but I had a bf which he knew about, but we decided to see where it went...I so wanted to be w/ him, but was too scared to make such a drastic change in my life...I was only 20 and he was 29...so now I live in a different state and had a baby w/ my now fiance, and we started talking again...I mean the attraction' still there and he's such a great guy...I'm going to visit my old state to see some friends and wanted to visit him...would you come see me or let me see you? He still tells me that I'm beautiful and that I'm a great person...my fiance doesn't know that I'm talking to him, but I seriously wish I was w/ this guy, but I don't think he'd put himself out there again or would even want to....

Would you visit me if you were in his shoes? guys?
You don't see it straight. The victim here is your child's father. You have a problem controlling your impulses. That, of itself, isn't what's wrong. What's wrong is your keeping it from him. If this is the same guy then you've been keeping him in the dark for two years. Why? Because you don't want to hurt him? Better someone else do it for you?





You do realize you could have had some guts and been straight with him at the beginning right? You wouldn't be asking this question now if you had.





Sorry if this isn't the answer you were hoping for, but it's not your fianceé's or this other guy's responsibility to make you happy with what you have. That's yours.





It doesn't matter what this other guy is willing or not willing to do. You have to decide whether to fall into bed with him or not. And it is you who has to decide whether or not you can deal with what comes after. Don't delude yourself thinking this other guy shares your concern for your fianceé. And, don't blame your fianceé when he reacts. He didn't really get to choose did he?





If your fianceé wants monogamy then either give it to him, convince him he doesn't, or let him choose to stay. Any way you'll be free to bang this other guy as much as you want.





Your fianceé is not your husband yet so you don't owe him fidelity. But you do owe him your respect of the trust he gave you.
Reply:well.this is a tough one.i think you should see him.make sure its not lust or just sex.make out then see how you feel afterwards.if you feel bad.then ddont see him any more.if your not in love with your boyfriend.that you have know.it may be just lust or sex.if neither one of your relationships work.call me.im interested?
Reply:If i was him i would stay away from you. If you will cheat with him. You will cheat on him.



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