Ladies, what would you do if you were in my shoes right now?????

About a year ago I was dating someone that we eventually didn't work out. About a month ago he contacted me again and wanted to see and like a fool I went to see. By the end on the night, I found out that not olny was he with someone else while he was with me, he also concieved a child during this period and he now lives with his son and the child's mother. My quesion to all is, he called me today and he wants to see me, what should I do?





The loving is real good but I am at a lost for how to handle this situation again. I like being with him but I don't ant all of the extra drama and I know how it is to be a baby mother and have your other half cheat, it didn't feel good to me so I know that if the other woman knew she would be very upset, HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!

Ladies, what would you do if you were in my shoes right now?????
Do Not even go there again!
Reply:TELL HIM TO TAKE A HIKE
Reply:well Honey.. You shouldn't see him. I don't think it's a good idea even if you like him, You have to think that you can't be the 2nd one in someone's life ... You deserve respect as a woman and He is just a immature guy, who feels confused.. I know it might hurt now but you'll see later on that that was the best thing you could ever do, no only because you saved your honor and your reputation but also because he is a DAD right now and you don't want in the future a husband that has affairs behind your back right?


YOU NEED TO THINK WHAT YOU DO AFFECTS OTHERS. Also, just think... where is this "relation" taking me to??? AM I GETTING SOMETHING GOOD OUT IF THIS? HOW MUCH DO YOU VALUE YOURSELF? IS ALL OF THIS WORTH ??? NIKKI If I was in your shoes.. I definately would forget about this guy. I would just not go and try to find a better person someone who can value me as a woman and never lie to me nor cheat.


THINK IT OVER OK NIkki ? :-)
Reply:I can't answer another question today..so I had to redo this one...I read your reply and you were right!! I just hate when women are better than the situation they are in and they stay... know that you were hurt before and you would never want some one to feel like you have before...this is not a good situation for you and hopefully within this past year you found other guys that were worth it...leave his azz alone though...you don't want to be carrying his baby and run into this question by some one else!!!
Reply:RUN! You don't want to be just like her...and then you will have his kid and he will be opening his black book for another chick he calls every now and then. Good loving IS EVERYWHERE!
Reply:Don't answer the phone........


He ahs enough on his plate you would just be an endless appy.


Run away from him


xoxo


glennie



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