What would you do if in my shoes? Happily married yet brother n law likes to flirt when huband not around.....

Ok. I'm very much happily married. However me and huband been married 2 years now and have a year old baby. Brother n law is 17. And I flirt with him. I flirt with guys I know or think will know its nothing serious. Huband know and gets doesn't care he knows I'm just messing around with them and would never cheat. Well his brother always flirts back jokingly as well and in front of his brother all fun and games. Well his brother asked me to a dance at his school had no other date so anyway I went. And he tried to do something with me. I said no I'm happily married. However is something wrong with me because I liked the attention from him. I mean hubby doesn't say things like you're pretty or wanna jump me to have sex anymore. So what's your take on the deal?

What would you do if in my shoes? Happily married yet brother n law likes to flirt when huband not around.....
I strongly agree with x2000. Something is missing in your relationship if you feel the need to flirt with other men. I can't imagine any situation where a married women should accompany another man to any function. Hello is your husband blind. If you aren't mature enough to be in a relationship with one person it will never work. However in your defense if your husband was interested in a one on one relationship you would not be going out with other men, brother or not!
Reply:you need to figure out why you desire attention outside of your marriage and address that need...





sounds like you feel under-appreciated by your husband, so I would suggest sitting down with him to have a real heart-to-heart conversation where you lay out your feelings.





No one can blame you for what you feel...just make sure not to sound accusatory toward him when you do so. Nothing shuts down a conversation quicker than a pointed finger!
Reply:girl...why were you your brother in law's date to the prom?





what did you expect? because you accepted his invite, he thought that he may have a chance with you.
Reply:You're "egging this on". You need to stop flirting! It is going to catch up with you, like it just did with your brother in law. Don't play games if you don't want to win prizes!
Reply:My take is that you should not be flirting if you want to be married. Joking or not. You want to flirt, get a divorce, and flirt away. Also, what the heck are you doing dating other people? That's just plain stupid and asking for problems. Finally, don't feel too flattered, cut a hole in a piece of wood, and a 17 yo guy would try to have sex with it.



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