Am i being too baby? should i forgive him???

i got a free ticket to go to great adventure six flags and i could invite one guest so i invited my best friend. i called him repeatedly and he said he will go. i called him a day before the great adventure and he said he will although he is out drinking with his friends.





at 8 in the morning, i went to his house to pick him up. but he wasnt there. i called him over 20 times and he didnt picked up the phone. i was pist off and i left him a harsh message. i didnt wanted to go there alone so i just went back home.





i really dont care about great adventure or free ticket. what made me mad was that he is my best friend and i trusted him but he betrayed it. i believe friends are all about trust. after this, i cannot trust him. he called me and left a message... i didnt even listen to it and erased it.





would u guys be mad if u were in my shoes? am i just overreating? am i being too immature?

Am i being too baby? should i forgive him???
I would be mad but it is not that crucial! U can't always depend on ppl to come through for u.Its a lil immature.4give him 4 it.
Reply:i would be really mad. and probably would have left him a message too. after all he is your best friend and best friends shouldn't do that. you are not being immature but you should have listened to his message because he could have said something really important, and you should always wanna hear what your friends have to say because it could be there last words to you.!!!
Reply:You should at least let him explain you why he wasn't home. Maybe therewassomething serious going on. Of course maybe he was still out drinking or whatever.


In any case, I do believe you are wrong to be mad at him but I believe in second chances so I think you should give him one.


If the reason whe stood you up wasn't anything serious then you can tell him that you don't trust him as much anymore but that you will give him (if you want that is) a second chance to earn your trust again.
Reply:I would be a little mad that he blew me off bt I think you are being a little to harsh. I cold understand if he blows you off all th time but you didn't make note of that. So, with that inmind, I say that you shoul call him up and go out for a meal or sumthing and listen to his story and then decide if he's a loser tah aught to be ditched. untl then take a breather reflect onall that he's done. if not a lot of bad I think he deserves another chance.





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Reply:I'd be mad too, but I'd eventually forgive him for it. I think it was a bad idea to delete his message. Give it a few days, see if he calls you. If not, maybe give him a call and ask what happened, and tell him you're really offended that he ditched you like that.





I remember a year or two ago when I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to go to this concert, and he said yes. So the day of the concert, I call him, and his mom says he went to it with a few of his friends and completely ditched me, I was ready to kill him, lol. Getting over it just takes time, and sometimes you have to freak out a little bit at the person just so they know that they shouldn't mess around with you like that. :P
Reply:Heck yes I'd be mad. If I were you I wouldn't forgive him. Did he apologize???? If he did then I would start to forgive him but not all at once. If he has not said a word to you since...I don't even know what to tell you. Oh and how do you know he erased the message without listening to it??





Whatever you choose to do........good luck!
Reply:i THiNK THAT i WOULD BE MAD T0O



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