I love my bf with all my heart. He's the one for me, no one else could fill his shoes. But my parents?

think he's a dope addict and he's a looser (which he is not!!). They think I pay for everything, but I don't. He's won't let me take my wallet into a resturant! He's very manly about his role in the relationship. They also think he's a looser cause he has a 5 year old little girl, (he pays child support) baby's momma left him though, he didn't leave her. They just won't listen to me when I try to explain this to them. They just say "oh yeah you'll take up for him blah blah blah". It's driving me crazy! Me and my bf are talking about getting married and where we would live etc. He says he wants to get married before July of this year. I want to marry him and be his wife. But my parents wont approve. I believe though that they will get over it eventually. I just want to be happy and he's the one who's going to make me happy.


Do you thinks it's wrong to go against something that my parents are strongly set againt, or should I go ahead with what I believe and make myself happy?

I love my bf with all my heart. He's the one for me, no one else could fill his shoes. But my parents?
Let me give a contrary answer. Ask your parents why they don't approve. Don't argue with them, just listen. They care about you. Let your parents spend some time with him. If he's a decent guy, your parents will probably come around. If he's not, they won't. Remember your parents have been through the whole dating, parents not approving thing before, and they've learned a lot about people.





One last thing, just for you. Make sure you know the difference between being in love and loving someone. That being in love feeling won't last. Loving someone is a choice, and it's going to be a hard choice when he comes home drunk, or when he's been on the road with work for 3 weeks and hasn't called, or you're pregnant and miserable and he wants to go watch football with his friends. Being in love won't help you then. What gets you through that is a decision to love people, and it will be hard.



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